To some people, they have this impression that I am a sociable person. Naturally I will have a lot of friends. That is just a myth. Fact is I hate to socialise, I find all excuses to get out of any social events.
I dont believe in having a lot of friends. Close friends should be infact minimal. I dont like to talk to people who doesnt excite me intellectually.
One of the reasons why I no longer stay in contact and is avoiding my ex classmates is because when we go out for gatherings I often hear things like; Ben talk leh, make me laugh etc etc. I totally hate that. I hate to have a one way conversation. That is why I sent them a email telling them to exclude me in any outings or mailing groups. I no longer have them on facebook, msn or hp.
I only have 30 people on my msn, I delete alot of them and I barely talk to not more then 5 of them.
On my phone contacts I only have 44 contacts. I barely sms alot except to a few.
Close friends however I have probably not more then 3. Well I have 2 of them in Perth. One in Singapore, I am going to ignore the one in Singapore very soon. Sometimes all it takes is to have a girl in the picture to see what type of person he is.
He is I can say changed and I dont know him anymore. He just got struck of the wedding invite list. Stubborn, Full of himself and totally selfish.
What type of lies he says behind my back…. I can only wonder.
The 2 clones from Perth well thats another story all together. Those two are people who I will keep for a long time to come. Infact gladly fly them over for the wedding if CFO clears the budget paper.
So really sociable is not a word one would associate with me. Dont be sad if you dont see me on msn or facebook anymore, it totally means I get bored talking to you and really we be better off without each other. 
